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Friday, 31 August 2012

क्यूँ ??

हर वक़्त एसा क्यूँ  होता हे ??
क्यूँ  ये दिल अक्सर तनहा हो कर रोता हे??

होती नहीं बेगानों की परवाह कोई ,
न ही कोई अरमान होता हे . . .
बस दर्द सा उठता हे जब ,
वो मेरा अपना, उन बेगानों में होता हे///

होती नहीं आशा कोई,
न ही कोई गिला होता हे .  . .
बस छुप-छुप कर यूँ ही ,
मेरा दिल हर पल रोता हे ///

होती नहीं खुशियाँ कोई,
न ही कोई गम होता हे . . .
बस तकलीफ सी होती हे जब ,
शीशे की तरह मुझे मेरा अपना ही तोड़ता हे ///

क्या गुनाह हे मेरा??
क्यूँ हरपल ये सवाल होता हे??

क्या भरोसा हे वजह इसकी??
या इस दुनिया में कोई अपना ही नहीं होता हे??


Friday, 24 August 2012

Love Marriage "या" Arrange Marriage

Both the side has marriage in common. So it do not matter whether you chose your partner or your parents, the thing that matter is the commitment a marriage should have!!
The topic is that wise that every one of us has some views on that, but I really don’t know why it is always contradictory. Many people say that Arrange marriages are good because our parents have experienced their life so they can take better decision, and on the other side they say love marriages are good because it’s you, who have decided with whom you will live the whole life??
But my opinion is, it do not matter whether your marriage is love or arranged…all that matter is the bond you share with your partner. Once you got married you have many adjustment, commitments, and compromises and so on.
What if your was a love marriage and after some time you realize that your partner is not that loyal to you??
And if your parents chose the best person for you, but still you cannot cope-up??
Marriage is that stage which changes a person’s life. Either you are a boy or a girl, both of you has to understand each other. That’s the only way one can live long life with their partners. In ancient times the scenario was different from that of today, so we need to change our mentality. After you have spent 50 long years with your partner it do not matter that it was love or arranged?? That time you cherish the great time you had with each other. So once you know how special you are,, than who cares it was love or arranged!!!

This was my entry for Sony Entertainment Television and IndiBlogger competition for the program Love marriage v/s arrange marriage.


Thursday, 23 August 2012



What do you really want?
Sit down and write it out on a piece of paper. Write it in present tense. You might begin with “I am happy and
greatful now that…” And then explain how you want your life to be, in every area. – BOB PROCTOR

(Asking is the first step in creative process, so make it a habit to ask. If you have to make a choice and you don’t know which way to go, ask!! You should never be stumped on anything in your life. Just ask!!)


See the things that you want as already yours. Know that they will come to you at need. Then let them come. Don’t fret and worry about them. Don’t think about your lack at them. Think of them as yours, as belonging to you, as already in your possession. – ROBERT COLLIER

Most of the time, when we don't see the things that we've requested, we get frustrated. We get disappointed. And we begin to become doubtful. The doubt brings about a feeling of disappointment. Take that doubt and shift it. Recognize that feeling and replace it with a feeling of unwavering faith. "I know that it's on its way." - LISA NICHOLS

(Ask once, believe you have received, and all you have to do to receive is feel good. You wouldn't ask for something or anything unless it was going to make you feel good in the receiving of it, would you?? So get yourself on the feel good frequency, and you'll receive.)

Begin to feel wonderful about it. feel the way you will feel once it arrives. Feel it now. - LISA NICHOLS

Monday, 20 August 2012


Yesterday one of my friends gave me the novel. From months I’ve been thinking to read this fine piece but for some reasons I was unable…
I just turned happy @ the moment he gave me the book and thanked him for what he did…and late night I started reading….
What a fine piece!!
I realized the reason why so many of my colleagues were talking about this book and now it is very clear to me why they told me to read it…I just loved this master piece from the page one and the way everything is explained in it and so I decided to share it on my blog!!
There were many points that inspired me to share it with all my viewers….
It is not possible to write every fact in one post so I’ll post it in parts…without wasting my time Here I start…hope it will help you to achieve something and the facts you can utilize in your life. . 

Everything that's coming into your life you are attracting into your life. And its attracted to you by virtue of the images you are holding in your mind. It's what you are thinking. Whatever is going on in your mind you are attracting to you. You are the most powerful magnet in the universe! You contain a magnetic power within you that is more powerful than anything in the world, and this unfathomable magnetic power is emitted through your thoughts.

Our job as humans is to hold on to the thoughts of what we want, make it absolutely clear in our minds what we want, and form what we start to invoke one of the greatest laws in universe, and that's the law of attraction. You become what you think about most, but you also attract what you think about most.  - JOHN ASSARAF

Your thoughts create the frequency, they attract like things on that frequency, and they are broadcast back to you as your life pictures. If you want to change anything in your life, change the frequency by changing your thoughts.

Here's the problem. Most people are thinking about what they don't want, and they're wondering why it shows up over and over again. - JOHN ASSARAF 

To become aware of  your thoughts you can also set the attention, "I'm the master of my thoughts". Say it often, mediate on it, and as you hold to that intention, by the law of attraction you must become that.
When you are feeling down, did you know that you can change it in an instant?? Put on a beautiful piece of music, or start singing- that'll  change your emotion. Or think of something beautiful. Think of a baby or somebody that you truly love, and dwell on it. Really keep that thought in your mind. Block everything out but that thought. I guarantee you'll start to feel good. - BOB PROCTOR

Wednesday, 15 August 2012

True Independence...

Every year we define a new definition of independence on the same day. .  We discuss about the problems in our nation, we compare our nations with others. We build thinking in ourselves, that nothing is going to happen our nation is run by old people that’s why it is turning old is the reason we give. But I don’t understand why do we forget about the real heroes??
The heroes who fought with the opposite circumstances and proved themselves a real child of India……no..I am not narrating the same old story once again. But I am talking about the heroes of present India. For us every Independence Day is a day on which we talk about previous heroes that they have fought for us and bought this freedom 65 years ago.

I want to talk about young heroes, who crossed the barriers, who fought with everyone for their dreams, and today they are in front of us to make us proud. In a nation where cricket is a fever, where no one thinks anything else then cricket, where sports means cricket. They struggled a lot but it doesn’t matter. They deserve to be called as real child of India. Hope it is clear now from my description…yes I’m talking about the six medals we won in London Olympics.

They have given us a reason to think once again. They went beyond their limits and today they are a reason to feel proud about. Without having facilities, and knowing the fact that they live in a nation where cricket is the only sport people play. They went ahead and proved their caliber. I heartily congratulate them and the whole nation for their success.

Only the need is to change our thinking. I’m happy to see people welcoming them at Delhi airport in a similar way our cricketers are welcomed after a victory. The problem is not that we don’t have caliber in ourselves, but the problem is that we don’t identify that caliber.Happy to see the changing nation, with lots and lots of achievements. Hope we will win again, hope we will prove again, and most importantly I hope that we will celebrate again together with processions and rallies for the real heroes of India.

A very HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY to all my viewers and follower and respected citizens of my Country.


Sunday, 12 August 2012

Dedicated lines.... :)

Friends are heart of a person...sometimes they tease..sometimes they celebrate...fight...shout...but they are life........
They can fight with the whole world for us...they can cry louder then us...and can act in most stupid way. . 

It is beautiful to write for somebody but you are @ cloud9 when somebody writes for you...
Below are some lines,, one of my best friend dedicated to me on this Friend ship Day.... :))

If you would not be in my life,,
My whole life would be a mess. . .

If you would not be in my life,,
Their would be no friend side by me. . .

If you would not be in my life,,
with whom I would have shared???

If you would not be in my life,,
From whom I would have learn the art of commitment. . .

If you would not be in my life,,
Who had supported me in all the ways. . .

Yes you are in my life being a friend, supporter and everything. . .